Finding Your Soulmate Can Be Easy

There are millions of people on the Earth but, unfortunately, a significant number of them are alone. Didn’t the God create “the one and only” for them? I do not think so. Are they looking for their soulmates in the wrong places? Or do they have some wrong principles? I would rather agree with the latter option.

A picture of a happy coupleChoosing a Life Partner – Reality vs. Dreams

The first reason of failures in romantic relationships is the unrealistic idea of your future partner. He/she is not a hero from the favorite movie. Besides, he/she isn’t without imperfections. It is a real person with own habits, priorities, points of view, and skeletons in the wardrobe. The same are you. I know that you are cool, but let us confess: there is still something to be improved.

Secrets of a Happy Married Life

People who have lived together many years and bring up children do not watch TV, walk or talk to each other all night and all day long. They have many obligations and everyday tasks to do, but it does not mean that they do not think of each other. The spouse will be the first to call in case of emergency and the first to tell funny everyday stories. They help each other by sharing routine tasks and family obligations. Thus, happy married life is not built on love at first sight or super passionate relations – it is rather built on the ability to find compromises, sharing responsibilities, and showing respect. If the last three are absent, no infatuation will work for a long time.

Dating Advice

#1. Do not judge a person from the first date. It is sometimes hard to open your soul at once. Give the second chance.

#2. Remember that boys who are shy and a little withdraw into themselves are often better husbands when lady’s men rarely go to happy marriages.

#3. No rudeness, impertinence, shouting at you or insults are admissible.

The clearest sign that will help you to recognize your soulmate is the emotional comfort. I am not talking about the first date here, but if you are together for a week or more and cannot stop quarreling or arguing, it seems that your characters are too different to support long-lasting relations. The presence of “your kindred spirit” should calm and inspire you for sure. Your partner is the first to rely on in difficult life situations and you should be sure that he/she will ease but not complicate your life.

Published: September 2, 2016
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